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Saturday, May 7, 2011

What Does Love Mean?

I found this bit of syrupy sweetness lurking in my email inbox as I was trying to clean it out; and since Mother's Day is tomorrow, it seems like a good weekend to be a little sentimental.  :)  Somebody sent this to me more than five years ago; it's about time I did something with this and didn't just let it clutter up my inbox!  Of course, I have no way of validating whether Rebecca, age 8, really said the quote attributed to her, or whether Billy, age 4, the one attributed to him, etc.  But that's not really the point, is it?  It's just to make us smile...


What Does Love Mean?
answers by children, ages 4 - 8


When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.  So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis, too.  That's love.
~ Rebecca, age 8


When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.  You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.
~ Billy, age 4


Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.
~ Karl, age 5


Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.
~ Chrissy, age 6


Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.
~ Terri, age 4


Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.
~ Danny, age 7


Love is when you kiss all the time.  Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.  My Mommy and Daddy are like that.  They look gross when they kiss.
~ Emily, age 8


Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.
~ Bobby, age 7


If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.
~ Nikka, age 6


Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt; then he wears it every day.
~ Noelle, age 7


Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.
~ Tommy, age 6


During my piano recital, I was on a stage, and I was scared.  I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.  He was the only one doing that.  I wasn't scared anymore.
~ Cindy, age 8


My mommy loves me more than anybody.  You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.
~ Clare, age 6


Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.
~ Elaine, age 5


Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.
~ Chris, age 7


Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.
~ Mary Ann, age 4


I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.
~ Lauren, age 4


When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.
~ Karen, age 7


Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.
~ Mark, age 6


You really shouldn't say "I love you" unless you mean it.  But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.  People forget.
~ Jessica, age 8


Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.  The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.  The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.  Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.  When his mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing.  I just helped him cry."

I could add my own "Love Is" to this list.  Actually, I could add quite a few of them; but how about just one for tonight?

Love is four laughing boys in a tub and a daddy who, although tired from a long day at work, gives of himself to make bath time a delight for his sons!

3 comments:

  1. I love that picture, and I think it's so wonderful that Jeff does the baths for you. I work very, very hard to make bathtime smooth over here, and it's a lot of work. Paul is a toughie to bathe due to his extreme dislike of water on his face or ears, or even having them wet. Anyway, it's usually easiest if I just handle the baths because I know the routine that works the best for him. Having said all that, the baths are the part of caring for children that I like the least. Therefore, I completely agree that this is a picture of love.

    Also, from one mother to another, Happy Mother's Day!

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  2. Too much fun is going on in that tub!

    Happy Mother's Day!

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  3. ah I am siting here in tears from this one quote...

    When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.
    ~ Billy, age 4

    Such an incredible insight!

    Hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day!

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